People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities. Who wouldn’t? Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person. But that’s not the clever trick. The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’? Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you.

People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities. Who wouldn’t? Anybody can love the…

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Well?” Ron said finally, looking up at Harry. “How was it?”Harry considered it for a moment. “Wet,” he said truthfully.Ron made a noise that might have indicated jubilation or disgust, it was hard to tell.”Because she was crying,” Harry continued heavily.”Oh,” said Ron, his smile faded slightly. “Are you that bad at kissing?””Dunno,” said Harry, who hadn’t considered this, and immediately felt rather worried. “Maybe I am.

Well?” Ron said finally, looking up at Harry. “How was it?”Harry considered it for a moment. “Wet,” he said truthfully.Ron…

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I’m about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you’re going to find is a man who didn’t care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want.

I’m about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and…

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If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fcking phone call.

If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and…

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